雙語閱讀：10個(gè)小習(xí)慣升級(jí)甜蜜戀人(2)

雙語閱讀：10個(gè)小習(xí)慣升級(jí)甜蜜戀人

　　6. Hug each other when you see each other after work.

　　6. 下班后給彼此一個(gè)擁抱。

　　This one is easy—who doesn’t want to melt into a comforting hug after a hard day? And if you had a good day, share your excitement with a hug. You can’t beat ‘em. And once you start hugging, you’ll feel so much happier that you’ll find it easier to make time to cuddle with your partner instead of getting stressed by the things you need to get done around the house.

　　這個(gè)很容易——誰不想在辛苦工作后得到一個(gè)欣慰的擁抱呢?如果你今天過得不錯(cuò)，那就用擁抱傳達(dá)你的開心吧。你絕對(duì)抵抗不了擁抱的誘惑。一旦擁抱，你會(huì)感到更加開心，也更愿意多和戀人依偎在一起，而不會(huì)為了家里一堆雜事煩惱。

　　7. Say “I love you” and “Have a good day” every morning.

　　7. 每天早晨說“我愛你”和“希望你今天過得開心”。

　　Another easy tip! Saying sweet words to each other is never a waste of breath. My fiancé and I say “I love you” any time we part—whether it’s on the phone, when he leaves for work, when I run an errand. It makes you feel much happier, and is always a good note to end on when you go about your days.

　　這也是一個(gè)很簡單的建議!嘴甜不吃虧嘛。我和未婚夫在任何分別的時(shí)候都會(huì)說“我愛你”——掛電話啦、他去上班啦，或者僅僅我出去辦點(diǎn)事。這會(huì)讓你更快樂，在一天工作開始時(shí)來這么一句很不錯(cuò)哦。

　　8. Say “Good night” every night, regardless of how you feel.

　　8. 不論多累，每天晚上都要說“晚安”。

　　Same with “Have a good day,” saying “Good night” when you and your partner go to bed puts a nice, loving haze on the end of the day. My fiancé and I have a nightly routine we say before falling asleep. I won’t reveal it here because it’s special to us, but it includes “Good night,” “I love you,” and other nice phrases that make you feel good and inspire sweet dreams!

　　和“希望你今天過得開心”一樣，睡覺前跟戀人道“晚安”也能增加一天的美好愛意。我和未婚夫睡覺前都要聊好些話，鑒于這是我倆的私事，不便在這里透露，但是我們肯定會(huì)說“晚安”以及“我愛你”等甜言蜜語，這樣心情很愉悅，連做夢也是甜的!

　　9. Do a “weather” check during the day.

　　9. 白天抽空查看一下“天氣情況”。

　　A “weather” check is where you call your partner during the day to see how they are. A caring phone call or text can really brighten their day and show them that you’re thinking of them. As an added bonus, it gives you a heads up about how their day is going. If they’re having a tough time, you can curb your happiness about a work promotion and be more sympathetic as soon as you get home. You can tailor your attitude to make them feel that much better when you both get home.

　　“天氣”檢查其實(shí)是說，白天抽空打電話問問戀人怎么樣了。一個(gè)關(guān)心的電話或短信真的可以給他帶去陽光，并且可以說明你在想他。而且，你還能獲知他的進(jìn)展情況哦。如果他過得不好，你可以忍住自己升職的快樂情緒，回家后對(duì)他表現(xiàn)得更同情一些。當(dāng)你們都回家時(shí)，你也可以調(diào)整情緒，讓他感覺好受些。

　　10. Be grateful for what you have.

　　10. 對(duì)已經(jīng)擁有的要心懷感激。

　　This is the simplest tip of all, because if you’re in a relationship, you clearly value your partner. Be thankful that you have someone you love who loves you back. Be thankful that they help you with household chores and support you during tough times and cheer you on during the good times. Look at your partner as much as you can and just smile that you have them by your side.

　　這是最簡單的建議，因?yàn)槿绻阍谡剳賽郏硭?dāng)然要珍惜對(duì)方。有人愛你，而你又恰好愛他，那么請(qǐng)心懷感激吧。有人幫你做家務(wù)，在困難時(shí)給你支持，在順利時(shí)逗你開心，所以請(qǐng)心懷感激吧。用心凝視戀人，朝他微笑，感謝有他陪伴!