英語(yǔ)美文：只言片語(yǔ)談戀愛(ài)

　　以下是小編整理的情感類(lèi)英語(yǔ)美文欣賞：只言片語(yǔ)談戀愛(ài), 希望對(duì)你有所感觸。

　　Whatever I am writing - is based on my personal experience with life. It’s just like life has become a book or certification for me. Similar I found with Mr. M K Gandhi "The Father of Nation? India". He wrote about his experience with truth. I am inspired because writing is best way to express all your feelings that you can’t do elsewhere.

　　Till date? I am unmarried. I have just started my career as an associate consultant. I believe consultant acts as a confusing mechanism to a client. Provide options not a decision. Well I am straightforward and honest. I have doubt to what extend and how long will I continue with all falsehood of business. Anyway this is expression time.

　　My elder sister is a center of my life. I never find absence of love, friendship or guardian till I am with my sister. Once I was far? The first letter I learned was "L" and word was "Love". Even you start loving your age girl in your college days. It is becoming fashion! Get a bike? Girl friend is free. Cost is only petrol. You be at Canteen, no class, all types of festivals and days in campus.

　　Sometime I was worried about my common man inside. I never did in my graduation. I had given lift only to one girl who was my enemy but by default she was a member of my industrial project study.

　　Well I have not so many words to express my love and friendship. You generally express what you have rather you missed. Right?

　　First of all I dislike thinking about love as any physical act. What we call romanticism. Romeo and Juliet? A Great Love Story. Well it was. But it is our style to misunderstand everything. (I may also do same thing!) But Thomas Moore says, "Romantic love is an illusion. Most of us discover this truth at the end of a love affair or else when the sweet emotions of love lead us into marriage and then turn down their flames." I 100 % agree with the statement.

　　At this moment? I get another tragedy. Few of my friends were really in deep love. I don’t know its meaning please! Graduation was over. Those who were unable to create their future，including them too. There is a French proverb: "Love makes the time pass. Time makes love pass." It is ok to love someone else if you know how to love yourself first! Understand love first. Love is not a girl for a friend and vice versa. It is not a feeling. It is not an attraction. Definitely love is not a time pass at all.

　　There is an edge in our region: "Never wait for bus, train and a girl. If you missed one, another will come." But Gentleman “What are you doing at all?" You have to catch one.

　　It is really tough to define love for one. We all have different meanings of love. It depends on psychology of different minds. For any Road to Romeo? Seating on cross roads and looking passionately thinking all nightmare dreams is love. For any highly knowledgeable studying at college impressing classmates and taking city round just like a guide is a love. For any typical clerk marrying a caste girl and seating on seashore? Planning future having number of children is true love. So many examples!

　　On the same situation Leo Tolstoy says "If so many men, so many minds, certainly so many hearts, so many kinds of love."

　　Well let me express few words on my experience. My love is always based on expectation of true friendship. For most of people family love may be messy, clinging, and of an annoying and repetitive pattern. But it is not of my case. I find true meaning of love when I put my first step far from my sister.

　　You know - Sisters touch your heart in ways no other could. Sisters share... their hopes, their fears, their love, everything they have. Real friendship springs from their special bonds.

　　My weakness is I easily fall in love. And probably I love to write on love although I have been a poor unsuccessful story. But I am one of the luckiest fellows who have got love since birth in advance.

　　I always look a person like my sister in a girl whom I love. Sorry I am attaching love with girl. Love has no physical entity. Still let’s take a girl, my age girl. 2-3 years above and down difference is ok. Out of my life’s six choices, most of which are "Salwar Kameez" (an Indian dress material) just like my sister. They were bold enough to talk at the same time able to understand situation. In short similar to my sister.

　　What does it mean? We love people on the basis of some attributes. Even you check out with your experience. Most of us will agree with me finding same attributes or characteristics in a person whom we loved.

　　I don’t know what is Love? I don’t know what is Friendship? I don’t know anything? I just want a person who can understand my feelings，my nature，my problems and me. If I want to meet her or if I want to talk to her, I don’t need a reason. Why do I insist to get my love that can marry me? because I will not need a permission of her husband if I want to talk to her.

　　We rarely understand but always feel it that love，friend and marriage have least degree of control on over physical body rather our mind. Your love is your strength. It is the basis of your existence.

　　"Love is something far more than desire for sexual intercourse; it is the principal means of escape from the loneliness that afflicts most men and women throughout the greater part of their lives." Says Bertrand Russell.

　　Your love may hurt you any day, as everything that comes has to go. Even my sister will get married one day. My friend whom I loved said she wished to be, as friends rather love. I am happy because she talks to me whenever I need. I have not done anything for her. There are many people who dislike me where I have few people who like me without any reason.

　　We always need to thank for giving such beautiful and kind relations in life. If you are in age of 12 to 28, you will feel it. Once you pass it, you will understand the reality that I don’t know yet.

　　Well if you are meeting to your true love today, convey my best wishes!

　　不管我寫(xiě)什么文章--那都是我根據(jù)我個(gè)人的生活閱歷寫(xiě)出來(lái)的。對(duì)我而言，寫(xiě)作就和生活一樣，因此生活也成了一本書(shū)或者是一個(gè)證明。我發(fā)現(xiàn)我和“印度國(guó)父”甘地先生一樣--他寫(xiě)的個(gè)人經(jīng)歷也都是真實(shí)的。我寫(xiě)作時(shí)很有靈感，因?yàn)閷?xiě)作是表達(dá)感情的最好方法。

　　直到約會(huì)?因?yàn)槲疫€沒(méi)有結(jié)婚。我已經(jīng)開(kāi)始了我的職業(yè)生涯--做助理咨詢(xún)顧問(wèn)工作。我們向客戶(hù)提供選擇而不是決策，所以對(duì)客戶(hù)來(lái)說(shuō)，我認(rèn)為咨詢(xún)師做的這工作很讓人困惑。而我這人又為人誠(chéng)實(shí)，性格直爽。我不知道該拓展什么，還有，那些生意上的虛偽何時(shí)能才夠結(jié)束。不管怎么說(shuō)，那都是一段讓我印象深刻的時(shí)期。

　　姐姐在我生命中很重要，和姐姐在一起，我從來(lái)沒(méi)有缺少過(guò)愛(ài)情、友情和保護(hù)。可是我一走遠(yuǎn)后?從第一封信中我懂得的是"L", 而這個(gè)單詞就是" Love "。甚至在你上大學(xué)時(shí)，你剛開(kāi)始愛(ài)上一個(gè)比你大的女孩--這很時(shí)髦。買(mǎi)輛自行車(chē)?可女朋友是不花錢(qián)的，要花錢(qián)的話(huà)也只不過(guò)是花點(diǎn)汽油費(fèi)。沒(méi)有課的時(shí)候，你們或許在餐廳，或者是參加學(xué)校里的各種各樣的節(jié)日慶?；顒?dòng)。

　　有時(shí)，我挺擔(dān)心我內(nèi)心世界里的那個(gè)普通人--我自己，不過(guò)，我沒(méi)有在我畢業(yè)的時(shí)候那樣做。我只順便捎帶一個(gè)女孩，她還是我的敵人，可碰巧她還是我的工業(yè)項(xiàng)目研究的一個(gè)成員。

　　我沒(méi)有太多的言語(yǔ)來(lái)表達(dá)我內(nèi)心的愛(ài)情和友誼，而你們通常所表達(dá)的是你們擁有的而不是你們失去的，對(duì)吧?

　　關(guān)鍵是我不喜歡有人把愛(ài)情說(shuō)成是肢體行為的看法，那我們認(rèn)為什么才是浪漫的呢，是羅密歐和朱利葉浪漫故事?他們的愛(ài)情確實(shí)是偉大的。然而，我們總是這樣錯(cuò)誤理解，也許，我也犯了同樣的錯(cuò)誤!托馬斯·莫爾說(shuō)：“浪漫的愛(ài)情只是一個(gè)虛幻。很多人到他們結(jié)束一段感情，或者是走向婚姻，或者是他們愛(ài)情的火焰熄滅的時(shí)候，他們才明白這個(gè)道理。” 我是100%同意他的這種說(shuō)法的。

　　這個(gè)時(shí)候?我又碰到了不幸的事了。我有幾個(gè)朋友正在熱戀，天那，我真不知道戀愛(ài)是什么東西!畢業(yè)過(guò)去了，可戀愛(ài)并不能夠給他們的未來(lái)帶來(lái)什么--還有他們自己。法國(guó)有一條諺語(yǔ)說(shuō)：“愛(ài)情打發(fā)時(shí)間，時(shí)間打發(fā)愛(ài)情。” 如果你都知道怎么愛(ài)自己，那么再去愛(ài)別人的話(huà)，那當(dāng)然很好了。談戀愛(ài)不是一個(gè)女孩追一個(gè)男孩，也不是一個(gè)男孩追一個(gè)女孩。戀愛(ài)不是一段感情，也不是一種吸引，確切地說(shuō)，愛(ài)情并不是虛度光陰。

　　我們地區(qū)的一個(gè)地方有個(gè)說(shuō)法是：“絕對(duì)不要為了一趟公共汽車(chē)，一列火車(chē)，或者是一個(gè)女孩而等待。如果你錯(cuò)過(guò)了，另一個(gè)會(huì)出現(xiàn)的。” 可是，紳士們你們看看，“你們正在做什么呢?”你們必須追到一個(gè)。

　　說(shuō)實(shí)在的，真的很難確定到底愛(ài)不愛(ài)一個(gè)人。我們對(duì)愛(ài)情都有不同的定義，而且，這還要看下一個(gè)人的心理因素。為了條條大道通向你的羅密歐?坐在十字路口，心血澎湃地張望，還有白日夢(mèng)里的所有東西都是愛(ài)情。在大學(xué)，想更加深入地了解漂亮的同學(xué)，就像導(dǎo)游似的在市里瞎轉(zhuǎn)，這些也是愛(ài)情。一個(gè)典型的員工娶到一位有地位的女孩，或者是坐在海灘上?想以后有很多孩子也是真正的愛(ài)情，這樣的典型太多了!

　　就此，列夫·托爾斯泰說(shuō)：“不同的人，不同的思想，不同的心地，造就不同的愛(ài)情。”

　　現(xiàn)在我就我的經(jīng)歷來(lái)說(shuō)幾句話(huà)吧。我的愛(ài)情總是建立在友情的希望基礎(chǔ)之上，也許，大多數(shù)家庭的愛(ài)情存在著一團(tuán)糟，相互依附，煩惱和反復(fù)的狀態(tài)。但是，那不關(guān)我的事，我是在我第一次離開(kāi)姐姐的時(shí)候，我才體會(huì)到愛(ài)情的真正含義。

　　真正的友情來(lái)自特殊的關(guān)系。大家都明白--姐姐是最更了解我們的人，她們把她們的希望、擔(dān)憂(yōu)和愛(ài)情等所有事都和我們一起分享。

　　我的缺點(diǎn)就是很容易陷入愛(ài)情的深淵。盡管我的戀愛(ài)故事都不怎么成功，可是我還是很喜歡寫(xiě)寫(xiě)我的愛(ài)情故事。出生后，我就很早擁有了一份愛(ài)情，我還算是一個(gè)很幸運(yùn)的家伙。

　　我總是想找一個(gè)我喜歡的，而且像我姐姐那樣的女孩。不好意思，我正在和一個(gè)女孩談戀愛(ài)。戀愛(ài)沒(méi)有肌膚之親，讓我們都找到一個(gè)女孩吧，比我大兩三歲或小兩三歲都可以。我的生命有六個(gè)選擇，大多數(shù)都是“沙麗克米茲”(“沙麗克米茲”是一款印度服裝)，像我姐姐一樣。為了能明白一個(gè)問(wèn)題，她們?cè)谕粫r(shí)間說(shuō)話(huà)時(shí)都很勇敢，簡(jiǎn)而言之，他們都很像我姐姐。

　　這是什么意思呢?因?yàn)樗麄兊哪承┨攸c(diǎn)，我們愛(ài)上他們，甚至你查點(diǎn)下你的經(jīng)歷后，你都會(huì)同意我的看法--我們愛(ài)的人有一些與眾不同的特點(diǎn)和個(gè)性。

　　我不知道什么是愛(ài)情?也不知道什么是友誼?我什么都不知道。我只知道我想要一個(gè)了解我情感、脾氣、缺點(diǎn)和我的人。如果我想和她說(shuō)話(huà)，想見(jiàn)她，也不需要任何理由。我之所以一直在尋找一個(gè)可以嫁給我的愛(ài)人，是因?yàn)槿绻蚁牒退f(shuō)話(huà)的話(huà)，這并不需要她丈夫的許可。

　　我們真的不懂，可我們還總是認(rèn)為愛(ài)情、友誼和婚姻在肉體控制而非思想上最起碼有點(diǎn)差別。你的愛(ài)人是你的力量，她是你存在的理由。

　　伯特蘭·羅素說(shuō)：“愛(ài)情不只是有性欲望，男男女女的一生中都要遭受孤獨(dú)，而愛(ài)情是遠(yuǎn)離孤獨(dú)的最好方法。”

　　你們的愛(ài)情可能有一天會(huì)給你帶來(lái)傷痛，但是，萬(wàn)事都是有始也有終的。甚至，有一天，我姐姐要嫁人，我愛(ài)的人卻說(shuō)她想我們做朋友而不是做戀人。在我需要的時(shí)候，她能夠和我聊天，我已經(jīng)很高興了，我也沒(méi)有為她做些什么。世界上有很多人不喜歡我，毫無(wú)理由地喜歡上我的也寥寥無(wú)幾。

　　我們需要感謝生活給了我們?nèi)绱嗣利惡蜕屏嫉母星?，如果你?2到28歲的人的話(huà)，你會(huì)明白這些話(huà)的。一旦你失去了愛(ài)情，你就會(huì)理解我至今都還不明白的這個(gè)事實(shí)。

　　如果今天你想去見(jiàn)你的真愛(ài)的話(huà)，那就捎帶著我最美好的祝福吧!