晨讀美文：如何走好人生下段征程?(2)

　　2. On her own biggest personal failure.

　　談自身最大的失敗

　　"The Oprah Winfrey Show was number one in our spot for 21 years, and I have to tell you, I became pretty comfortable with that level of success. But a couple of years ago, I decided, as you will at some point, that it was time to recalculate, find new territory, and break new ground. So I ended the show and launched OWN, the Oprah Winfrey Network. One year later, after launching OWN, nearly every media outlet had proclaimed that my new venture was a flop ... I can still remember the day I opened up USA Today and read the headline, 'Oprah: Not Quite Standing On Her OWN' ... It really was the worst period in my professional life. I was stressed and I was frustrated, and quite frankly, I was embarrassed ... Then the words came to me, 'trouble don't last always,' from an old hymn. This too shall pass. And I thought, I am going to turn this thing around and I will be better for it. And I am here to tell you that I have turned that network around."

　　Then the words came to me, 'trouble don't last always,' from an old hymn. This too shall pass. And I thought, I am going to turn this thing around and I will be better for it.

　　我突然想到某首古老贊美詩中的一句話：“困難只是暫時的”，我遇到的麻煩同樣會有結(jié)束的一天。然后我想，我會將這一頁翻過去，我會好起來的。

　　3. On the common thread of all the interviews she's conducted during her career.

　　談職業(yè)生涯所做訪談的共同性

　　"The single most important lesson I learned in 25 years talking every single day to people, was that there's a common denominator in our human experience. The common denominator I found in every single interview is we want to be validated. We want to be understood. I've done over 35,000 interviews in my career. And as soon as that camera shuts off, and inevitably in their own way, everyone asks this question: 'Was that okay?' I heard it from President Bush, I heard it from President Obama, I've heard it from heroes and from housewives, I've heard it from victims and perpetrators of crimes. I even heard it from Beyonce in all her Beyonce-ness ... They all want to know: 'Was that okay? Did you hear me? Did you see me? Did what I said mean anything to you?'"

　　The common denominator I found in every single interview is we want to be validated. We want to be understood.

　　我發(fā)現(xiàn)，我所有的訪談有一個共同性，那就是人人都希望自己被認可、被理解。

　　They all want to know: 'Was that okay? Did you hear me? Did you see me? Did what I said mean anything to you?'

　　我的采訪對象都想知道：“我的表現(xiàn)OK嗎?你聽到我看到我嗎?我說的話對你有價值嗎?”

　　4. On the key to success and happiness.

　　談成功和快樂的關鍵

　　"You will find true success and happiness if you have only one goal. There really is only one, and that is this: To fulfill the highest, most truthful expression of yourself as a human being. You want to max out your humanity by using your energy to lift yourself up, your family, and the people around you. Theologian Howard Thurman said it best. He said, 'Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive and go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.'"

　　You will find true success and happiness if you have only one goal. There really is only one, and that is this: To fulfill the highest, most truthful expression of yourself as a human being.

　　如果你只認準一個目標，那你就能獲得真正的成功和快樂。人生確實只有一個目標，那就是：最大程度地、最真實地展現(xiàn)自己。

　　'Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive and go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.'“

　　不要問自己世界需要什么，問問是什么讓你充滿活力地活著，然后就去做，因為世界所需要的就是一個個朝氣蓬勃的人。”